{"id":222,"date":"2019-02-12T08:48:31","date_gmt":"2019-02-12T08:48:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/?p=222"},"modified":"2019-02-12T09:01:08","modified_gmt":"2019-02-12T09:01:08","slug":"cyrus-on-disney-channels-andi-mack-mirrors-writers-unconditional-friendship-when-coming-out-as-gay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/222\/cyrus-on-disney-channels-andi-mack-mirrors-writers-unconditional-friendship-when-coming-out-as-gay\/","title":{"rendered":"Cyrus on Disney Channel&#8217;s &#8220;Andi Mack&#8221; mirrors writer&#8217;s unconditional friendship when coming out as gay"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>    <picture>\r\n                <img src=\"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/andi-mack-disney-channel-im-gay.jpg\"\r\n             srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/andi-mack-disney-channel-im-gay.jpg 760w, https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/andi-mack-disney-channel-im-gay-300x240.jpg 300w\"             sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, (max-width: 1200px) 75vw, 1200px\"\r\n             width=\"760\"\r\n             height=\"608\"\r\n             alt=\"andi mack disney channel, i&#8217;mgay\"\r\n             loading=\"lazy\"             decoding=\"async\"\r\n             class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-228\" >\r\n    <\/picture>\r\n    <\/p>\n<p>Last Friday, the Disney channel played out what unconditional friendship looks like when revealing to your friend &#8220;I&#8217;m gay&#8221;, in the\u00a0&#8220;One in a Minyan&#8221; episode of the tv show\u00a0<em>Andi Mack<\/em>.\u00a0\u00a0Cyrus Goodman, played by\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/JoshuaRush\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Joshua Rush,<\/a>\u00a0is the first openly gay character to ever say the words on the Disney Channel.\u00a0 He told his two best girl friends (Andi Mack played by\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/PeytonELee_\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Peyton Elizabeth Lee<\/a>\u00a0and Buffy Driscoll played by <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/WylieSofia\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sofia Wylie<\/a>) in two earlier episodes, and this time just came out and said the words to his best guy friend Jonah Beck (<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/AsherAngel\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Asher Angel<\/a>) when he felt the time was right: &#8220;Ok, well, that of course is Aunt Ruthie&#8217;s kugel, that&#8217;s your classic bagel and lox, that&#8217;s gefilte fish, skip that, and, I&#8217;m gay.&#8221; \u00a0Jonah&#8217;s response: &#8220;Cool&#8221;. You can watch that part of the episode below:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube-nocookie.com\/embed\/GjNbNOaFaaw\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>It is like the Disney Channel&#8217;s version of Ellen coming out to her friend saying, &#8220;Susan, I&#8217;m gay&#8221; in 1997, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=68EyF9U4olQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;The Puppy Episode&#8221; of Ellen DeGeneres&#8217; show <em>Ellen<\/em><\/a>.\u00a0 But a lot faster.<\/p>\n<p>Awesomely, it&#8217;s fiction playing out the reality of what happened when <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/jonathanhurwitz\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Jonathan Hurwitz<\/a>, the writer of this <em>Andi Mack<\/em> episode, told his best guy friend in a similiar &#8216;rip-off-the-bandaid&#8217; fashion that he&#8217;s gay and got the same surprising and relieving &#8220;Cool&#8221; response.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;In the writer\u2019s room, I shared a personal story about how nervous I was to come out to a college friend back in 2010. While grabbing burgers one afternoon, he asked me to pass the ketchup, so I handed him the bottle while mumbling the words, &#8216;I\u2019m gay.,'&#8221; Hurwitz wrote. &#8220;He looked up at me, said &#8216;Cool,&#8217; then proceeded to put ketchup on his burger as if I hadn\u2019t just revealed my most personal, deepest truth. I remember thinking: That\u2019s it?! After a ten-year journey to come out to myself, I finally come out to my friend and all I get is a &#8216;Cool?!&#8217; But what I ultimately realized was that my friends and family loved me unconditionally before I\u2019d even learned to truly love myself.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And this part &#8211; this is just what Me We Too is about &#8211; being loved just the way you are, no matter how &#8220;weird&#8221; or &#8220;different&#8221;:<br \/>\n&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;In spite of Cyrus&#8217; nerves about telling Buffy, Andi, and now Jonah, he continually underestimates how much people accept him for who he is,&#8221; he wrote. &#8220;<strong>No matter how &#8216;weird&#8217; or &#8216;different&#8217; he feels (his words from Season One), his friends will always be right by his side, loving and supporting him.<\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8221;<br \/>\n(via &#8216;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.glaad.org\/blog\/andi-macks-jonathan-hurwitz-writing-one-minyan\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Andi Mack&#8217;s&#8217; Jonathan Hurwitz on writing &#8216;One in a Minyan&#8217;<\/a>&#8220;, guest blog post on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.glaad.org\/blog\/andi-macks-jonathan-hurwitz-writing-one-minyan\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">GLAAD&#8221;<\/a>)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>That&#8217;s true friendship.<\/p>\n<p>    <picture>\r\n                <img src=\"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/andi-mack-disney-channel.jpg\"\r\n             srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/andi-mack-disney-channel.jpg 992w, https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/andi-mack-disney-channel-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/andi-mack-disney-channel-768x576.jpg 768w\"             sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, (max-width: 1200px) 75vw, 1200px\"\r\n             width=\"992\"\r\n             height=\"744\"\r\n             alt=\"Andi Mack, Disney channel\"\r\n             loading=\"lazy\"             decoding=\"async\"\r\n             class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-223\" >\r\n    <\/picture>\r\n    <\/p>\n<p>Just like Cyrus&#8217;s friends didn&#8217;t push him to &#8220;come out of the closet&#8221; sooner than it felt right, Good Morning America reports,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>According to Brock Dumville, M.P.H. and Senior Crisis Services Manager for\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetrevorproject.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Trevor Project<\/a>, &#8220;the best way to support your friend would be to celebrate them for making choices that feel healthy for them, including if that is choosing not to come out.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The Trevor Project is a national organization providing crisis intervention for LGBTQ+ youth under 25. Visit the Trevor Project&#8217;s\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetrevorproject.org\/about\/programs-services\/coming-out-as-you\/#sm.00001nj1w2lsmben0u5ppp5bncl55\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;Coming Out As You&#8221;<\/a>\u00a0resource page for more.<br \/>\n(via <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodmorningamerica.com\/culture\/story\/andi-mack-makes-history-disney-channel-character-im-60991622\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8216;Andi Mack&#8217; makes history with first Disney Channel character to say &#8216;I&#8217;m gay&#8217;<\/a>)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>You can check out\u00a0&#8220;Andi Mack&#8221; on Friday nights at 8\/7c on the Disney Channel.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last Friday, the Disney channel played out what unconditional friendship looks like when revealing to your friend &#8220;I&#8217;m gay&#8221;, in the\u00a0&#8220;One in a Minyan&#8221; episode of the tv show\u00a0Andi Mack.\u00a0\u00a0Cyrus Goodman, played by\u00a0Joshua Rush,\u00a0is the first openly gay character to &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/222\/cyrus-on-disney-channels-andi-mack-mirrors-writers-unconditional-friendship-when-coming-out-as-gay\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[195,205,202,200,196,211,210,207,197,204,206,199,209,201,203,212,208,198],"class_list":["post-222","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-story","tag-andi-mack","tag-asher-angel","tag-buffy-driscoll","tag-cyrus-goodman","tag-disney-channel","tag-ellen","tag-ellen-degeneres","tag-glaad","tag-im-gay","tag-jonah-beck","tag-jonathan-hurwitz","tag-joshua-rush","tag-lgbtq","tag-peyton-elizabeth","tag-sofia-wylie","tag-the-puppy-episode","tag-the-trevor-project","tag-unconditional-friendship"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/222","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=222"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/222\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":238,"href":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/222\/revisions\/238"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=222"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=222"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mewetoo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=222"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}